How to Grow in the Grace and Knowledge of Our Lord

How to Grow in the Grace and Knowledge of Our Lord

The most important thing in the life of a Christian is to grow in the grace and in the knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ (2 Peter 3:18). Yes, we were saved by grace (Ephesians 2:8-9), but grace does not end there. And salvation (or eternal life) involves knowing God (John 17:3).

So, how do Christians grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord?

As Peter writes his final epistle, he was concerned about the false teachers that were plaguing the churches and wanted to encourage the believers to persevere. Thus, Peter repeats what he has emphasized throughout his letter on the danger of being misled by the doctrinal errors of these false teachers, and exhorted them to grow in the grace and knowledge of Jesus Christ.

How to grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord

What Does it Take to Grow?

Before we look at how and what it means to grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ, we need to consider several truths about growth in general.

1) Growth is dependent on life.

Where there is life, there must be growth. But you must be born before you can grow.

This principle is just as true spiritually as it is physically. The Bible tells us that we were all born into this world spiritually dead (Ephesians 2:1; Colossians 2:13), and that is why we all need to be born again (John 3:7). Only God can impart to us a new life.

2) Growth is never an option, it’s a necessity.

Growth is normal when there is life. Unless a child has a serious health problem, he will grow and not remain a child his entire life. The same is true for the Christian; he must keep growing in order to maintain steadfastness. God wants Christians to grow up in every way like Christ and not to remain as children (Ephesians 4:14-15).

3) Growth is always gradual, not instant or automatic.

Have you ever seen a baby grow into adulthood in just a matter of days, weeks, or even a few years? You don’t bring a baby home from the hospital and expect him to do what a 20-year-old can do. Growth is a process; it takes time to mature and develop.

In contrast to what some people think that one can become “holy” instantly through some powerful experience with God, spiritual growth is gradual. It requires cooperation with God and the application of spiritual diligence and discipline.

4) Growth is not easy, it’s difficult and painful.

A baby crawls first before he can walk. And once he gets the hang of walking, he still falls down a lot. He even falls flat on his face sometimes. It’s the same way with spiritual growth. There are a lot of tough lessons that we only learn by trial and error. Sometimes we thought we “got it,” only to realize later on that we haven’t really learned the lesson so we have to go through it again.

I – Grow in the Grace of our Lord

Grace is God’s unmerited favor by which He saves and sustains anyone who places their trust in Him. In other words, grace is not merely God’s way of drawing us to Him in the beginning. It is also the way we grow and remain steadfast in our faith in Christ.

The new birth is not the end; it is just the beginning. So how do we grow in the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ? To grow in grace means coming to a greater understanding of God’s holiness, justice, and sovereignty, which in turn allows us to see more of our rebellion, selfishness, and pride.

We do not only come to see more and more our unworthiness as the object of God’s grace, but we also see more and more how great His undeserved favor and love were that drew us to Himself.

Grace: the unmerited favor of God

Growing in grace involves developing the 7 Christian character traits that Peter wrote about in 2 Peter 1:5-7: virtue, knowledge, self-control, perseverance, godliness, kindness, and love. These traits must be produced by the Spirit of God. (See also Galatians 5:22-23.)

“But also for this very reason, giving all diligence, add to your faith virtue, to virtue knowledge, to knowledge self-control, to self-control perseverance, to perseverance godliness, to godliness brotherly kindness, and to brotherly kindness love.”       

God gives these character traits to us, but we need to develop them by regular Bible study and prayer, fellowship and service, confession of sin, and practicing good stewardship.

Although some unsaved people possess amazing self-control and endurance, these virtues point to them and not to the Lord, so they get the glory. But when God produces the beautiful nature of His Son in the life of a Christian, God receives the praise and glory.

We can grow in the grace of God (spiritual growth) and develop these Christian character traits because we were made in the image of God. This growth takes place through the power of God and the precious promises of God.

II – Grow in the Knowledge of Our Lord

In his epistle, Peter refers to Jesus as “our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ” three times (2 Peter 1:11; 2:20; 3:18). In doing so, Peter gives emphasis to the fact that you cannot separate Jesus Christ as Savior from Jesus Christ as Lord.

Peter is saying that the moment you place your trust in Christ as Savior, you are yielding all of yourself that you know to all of Christ that you know. When you become a Christian, you are to progressively grow in submission to Christ. And as a result, you will see more of who He is and more of who you are through the Word of God.

Knowing God means establishing a close, intimate relationship with God through Christ

Becoming a Christian involves knowledge and understanding. Such knowledge of Christ includes both facts about Him, as revealed in the Scriptures, and knowing Him personally. Growing in the knowledge of our Lord does not only involve reading the Bible in order to know what He has revealed about Himself; it also involves establishing a personal relationship and intimate fellowship with the Lord Jesus.

How do we grow in the knowledge of our Lord?

1) Upon establishing a personal and intimate relationship with God through faith in Christ Jesus, we grow in the knowledge of our Lord by continually seeking Him.

Since God alone is the author of our knowledge of Himself, only He can reveal Himself. We cannot possibly know God if He does not reveal Himself to us. The knowledge of God is received by those who continue to seek Him and call upon his Name (Jeremiah 29:13; Jeremiah 33:3).

2) Growing in spiritual wisdom and understanding involves complete dependence upon the Holy Spirit to illuminate our minds to the truth (John 16:13).

The Holy Spirit uses the Word of God to teach and transform believers. As we read, study, memorize and meditate on Scriptures, the Holy Spirit not only illuminates our minds to the knowledge of God but also equips us to instruct others in the knowledge of God.

We cannot ignore the handbook God has given us and expect to gain knowledge of Him in some other way. A patient study of the Scriptures enables us to hear God’s voice and to learn about how God views Himself, ourselves, and others. We will also know how God wants us to serve Him in order to accomplish His purposes.

3) Growing in the knowledge of our Lord involves faithfulness and obedience to Him.

This is the part where the believer exhibits in his life the knowledge of God he received by living a life that is worthy of God. This means that the way a believer conducts himself and lives his life must correspond to the character of Christ. Christians grow in the knowledge of God by living in complete submission to and obedience to God.

4) Growing in the knowledge of our Lord requires patient endurance and a teachable spirit.

The Christian life is for long-distance runners, not sprinters. If you want to grow in the knowledge of our Lord, you need to be open to learning from God’s Word and the Spirit. Christians who think they know it all have no more room for growth.

God does not reveal Himself and everything we need to know about Him all at once. We must learn to be patient and wait upon Him. We need to continue to persevere in God’s Word and abide in Christ. And that requires patient endurance on our part. The good news is that God will give us the strength to endure.


Did you know that you can be a Christian and never grow up? A famous quote by Maya Angelou says, “Everyone grows old but not everyone grows up.” This is not only true in the physical sense; it’s also true in the spiritual sense.

Hebrews 5:12-13 (NLT)

“You have been believers so long now that you ought to be teaching others. Instead, you need someone to teach you again the basic things about God’s word. You are like babies who need milk and cannot eat solid food. For someone who lives on milk is still an infant and doesn’t know how to do what is right.”

Growing in the grace and knowledge of God is a process, it’s not automatic.  There is no instant pill you can take today that will make you spiritually mature tomorrow. There is no shortcut to spiritual growth.  It takes time, effort and intentional pursuit.

So how can you tell if you’re growing in the grace and knowledge of God? When you are learning more and more through God’s Word how He wants you to live and when the character traits of Christ become more and more evident in your life, then you are definitely on the right track.

Recommended Resource:

Growing Your Faith: How to Mature in Christ by Jerry Bridges

Growing Your FaithWhen you’re gripped by the astonishing fact of Christ’s love for you, you desire to draw close to Him. But what can you do to deepen your relationship with Jesus? What does He expect of you, and how can you be more like Him?

In Growing Your Faith, Bridges presents the essential elements of Christian life in a highly readable, surprisingly practical form.

You’ll learn how to feed your spiritual life through taking in the Scriptures, rely on the Holy Spirit in obedience and prayer, trust God during life’s trials, and contribute your unique gifts to serve others.

Whether you’re a new Christian seeking direction in growing spiritually or a time-tested saint looking for a refresher, Growing Your Faith offers a solid foundation for genuine growth in spiritual maturity.

29 Replies to “How to Grow in the Grace and Knowledge of Our Lord”

  1. I’m so appreciative of what you said about growing in knowledge which comes from God relating to us through Scripture by means of the Holy Spirit.

    We need more articles on this to grow as Christians and fight the good fight against the enemy (Satan).

    1. Thank you for stopping by, Pastor David.

      I am so blessed that you found this article encouraging and helpful. God bless you as you continue to work on God’s vineyard.


  2. Wow, I’m really blessed by this article. I believe God is always speaking to us and this verse in Peter reminds me of Hosea chapter 4. it also talks about knowledge.

    Thank you so much for this wonderful word. May God bless you.

    1. Hello there, Fungai,

      Thank you for stopping by.

      It gives my heart so much joy to know that you’ve been blessed by this article. God sees our needs, physical and spiritual, and He always meets them.

      God’s abundant blessings be yours.

    1. Pleased to hear that, Isaiah. To God alone be the glory!

      Let us desire to grow in our faith, relationship, and service to God.


    1. Thank you, Sandra.

      It means a lot to me to hear you say that. It’s truly my joy to bless others through this platform.

      God bless you more, in Jesus’ name.

  3. I am blessed by this posting after searching for a further explanation of 2 Peter 3:18.

    I saw that the verse before the “But grow”, 2 Peter 3:17, is a warning to be on guard so that one may not be carried away by the error of the lawless (false teachings) and avoid falling from one’s secure position (salvation). The 2 Peter 3:18 verse is an encouragement to spiritual maturity; it includes motivation to every believer to grow to become spiritual fathers themselves.

    The posting has been a blessing in discussing substantial points on how to grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. It would be more beneficial if readers get help on how to pursue an intentional plan to grow in grace and knowledge.


    1. Hey Judy,

      I am so glad to know that you have been blessed by this article. At the same time I want to thank you for sharing your thoughts.

      You’re right! We are warned by the Word of God, through Peter, to be always watchful and be discerning to any false teaching and doctrines that could sway us away from the Lord.

      After warning us, Peter goes on to encourage us to grow and mature in our spiritual life. Sadly, many Christians are content where they are in terms of their relationship with Christ and do not seek to get to Him more.

      May we all continue to seek God’s will in and live it.

      God bless you.

  4. Hi Alice,

    I enjoyed reading your nice article. Easy to read and understand and it’s full of practical tips as to how one can grow in his/her walk with Almighty God.

    I personally want God to speak into my life – to transform me, to mold me. In areas where there is darkness in my life, let it be dispelled. Where there is rebellion and a struggle to obey Him, let not my spirit contend with His Spirit but instead to yield to His leading.

    I desire to let God shape me into what I should be in Christ. There is so much that I must do in obedience to God to live up to that high calling of Christian discipleship.

    It is my prayer and my desire to grow in my intimacy with God and ultimately to grow in the grace and in the knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ!

    Please remember me in prayer. Thanks & God bless your ministry.

    1. Hello Tan,

      I hope you are doing well.

      Thank you for taking the time to read the article and leaving a comment. I really appreciate it.

      As God’s children, we all long to have an intimate relationship with Him. This includes being able to tell Him everything that’s going on in our life. Well, not that He doesn’t already know. But we want to have a father-child relationship with God.

      Of course, we also want to be able to hear directly from God so we know if He is pleased with us or not. Don’t all children want their parents to be proud of them? And this is possible only when we are totally and completely surrendered to Him.

      God speaks to us in different ways in order to lead, guide, encourage, warn or discipline us. But if we keep ignoring His voice, He will never force us to listen to and obey Him. The desire to grow in our relationship with God has to come from us.

      Thank you again, God bless you more.

  5. I thank God for you for posting this wonderful message that has just answered my questions on how to grow in grace and knowledge of God Almighty. I need more of God and less of me.

    1. Hi Angel,

      So glad for you to have stopped by and it’s my joy to know that you found the answer you have been looking for in this article.

      Spiritual growth does require total surrender to God in every area of our lives not only for our benefit but even more so that God can use us for His greater purpose and glory.


    1. Hello Judas,

      Thank you for stopping by.

      You’re absolutely right! If we want to stay strong in the Lord, we need to get to know Him on a more personal and deeper level. Because the more we know the Lord, the more we will trust Him.

      However, we don’t just sit passively and wait for our relationship with God to grow. We need to do our part as Peter said in his epistle.

      We need to grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord Jesus by continually seeking Him, completely trusting His Holy Spirit to guide and lead us, remaining faithful and obedient to God, and having a submissive and teachable spirit.

      Much blessings to you!

    2. Thank you so much for blessing me through your post.

      I pray that God bless and increase you in all dimensions in Jesus name. Amen

  6. Thank you Holy Spirit for leading me to this article as a answer to my prayer to grow deeper in the Holy Spirit.

    1. Hello Lawrence,

      God be praised for leading you into this post that has the answer you’re looking for. Growing deeper in our relationship with God starts with getting to know Him more and that requires willingness on our part.

      We can’t expect to grow spiritually without having a personal relationship with the Lord, not depending on the Holy Spirit to guide and enlighten us, not being faithful and obedient to God and not exhibiting a teachable spirit.

      After all, our goal as Christians is to be conformed to the image of our Lord and Savior.

      So let’s keep growing by getting to know God all the more on a personal level.


  7. This post put a lot into perspective for me. I like how it emphasizes that spiritual growth is not something that happens overnight. It seems like people expect you to be a complete angel once you’re baptized or just decide to become more heavily involved in your spiritual journey.

    They don’t understand that is a process just like everything else in life. This was a great message to read!

    1. Hi Jasmine,

      The Bible says that anyone who is in Christ becomes a new creation (2 Corinthians 5:17) but that does not mean he will no longer make mistakes or commit any sin. Spiritual growth just like physical growth is a process. As we read and meditate God’s word and allow God to work in us and through us, we will be changed from glory to glory (2 Corinthians 3:18) until such time that we will see Jesus our Lord face to face.

      May we be encouraged all the more to grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior by getting to know Him in a more intimate and personal level through prayer, Bible study and meditation and by continuing in fellowship with other believers and getting involved in a ministry.

      God bless!

  8. Please, I need a teacher to teach me how to love God by completely stopping to sin against Him.

    1. Hi, thanks for visiting.

      To love God completely is a conscious decision every individual has to make. This stems from knowing who God is and what He has done for us because He loves us despite of who and what we are. What I’m saying is that, no one can truly love God without first getting to know Him.

      So in order for you to love God completely by submitting to His will and obeying His commandments (John 14:15), you have to get to know Him on a deeper level. You do this by spending time with Him in worship and prayer, reading His revealed word, the Bible, and fellowshipping with other Christians.

      Also, if you want to keep yourself from committing sin against the Lord, fill your heart with the Word of God. Psalm 119:11 says, “I have hidden your word in my heart that I might not sin against you.”

      You know that you are growing in the grace and knowledge of our Lord when you enjoy spending time with Him and reading Scriptures and also when you see yourself becoming more and more like Christ.

      If you do not have any church affiliation, I suggest you join a local church where you can actively get involved in the ministry. But it has to be a full gospel, Bible-believing and Spirit-filled church.

      Shalom, God bless!

  9. The post was an excellent read. It will definitely serve as source of inspiration and initial guidance for any person who wants to strengthen their sense of spirituality. The comparison between physical growth and spiritual growth was sharp.
    The author was right. A positive and strong sense of spirituality is one that is continuously nurtured through scripture.

    The author reminded us that people are human and make mistakes. Therefore, continuous nurture of spirituality by reading the Bible, practicing good fellowship, and stewardship leads to a positive fulfillment of one’s growth in the grace and knowledge of our Lord.

    1. Thank you for visiting and leaving a comment.

      Many Christians do not realize that physical and spiritual growth are similar in so many aspects. In the same way that we need food in order grow and physical activities in order to stay strong, fit and healthy, Christians also need spiritual food (the Word of God)and exercise (fellowship, ministry, prayer, etc) in order to be effective witnesses for Christ.

      It’s unfortunate that many Christians are in a stage of “arrested growth.” They have come to the saving knowledge of Christ for 20 or even 50 years but remained babes.

      May we strive to know more about our Lord and remain faithful to Him in every way.

      God bless!

      1. I’m really blessed with this article.

        May God Almighty help us to continue to grow in grace and knowledge of God.

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